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Forever Young

February 25th 2009 15:32
The tragic passing of my cousins Ashish and Akshay in the recent Fox glacier accident last month has affected not only me but all who knew them. Till date, I still await the odd email or Facebook message from them. Them not being around is a hard truth that we all are still trying to come to terms with. I was fortunate to get to know them better and share some wonderful moments with them.

Growing up in different cities (Mumbai and Pune) we hardly ever met, except for the odd family gathering…they moved to Melbourne and I met them after almost 12 years in 2007. They looked very different from the last time we met, and I am sure I would not recognise them if I ever bumped in to them anywhere else. Both were tall and lanky six footers and looked like regular 20 year olds. That evening we discussed family, our plans for the future, sports and even world politics. Ashish was vociferous about his love for cricket and his support for the Indian cricket team, while Akshay defended his favourite team Manchester United and the bad form they were currently going through. It was an awkward, yet fun evening, and since I was new to Melbourne they promised to include me in their plans.

Christmas 2007, was when we really hit it off and had a whale of a time with family from all over the city who gathered at my brother’s house. The younger members of the family had a singing showdown with the older ones…with Ashish and Akshay leading the youngsters. It was all in good fun, and the laughter and joy shared was the ultimate winner. It was then that they introduced me to their favourite songs ’Forever young’ and ‘Dream catch me’...they sang them like they believed every word of the lyrics (The former is ironically the jingle for the New Zealand tourism advertisement…the country where they did not return from). During this revelry I noticed the sparks flying between Ashish and my sister in law’s cousin. Showing me a good time became their excuse to meet up often after that, but I didn’t mind it…I was having a good time!

Akshay and Ashish Miranda
Akshay and Ashish Miranda on their parent's 25th wedding anniversary

Ashish always passed his plans by Akshay to see if he could join in. It was evident that they enjoyed each other’s company. Their personalities were starkly contrasting yet they complimented each other. Ashish was overt and animated when expressing his views. Akshay presented his case in a more subdued and controlled manner. Both were extremely intelligent and every conversation with them was stimulating and enjoyable.

I am extremely proud to call them my cousins and must acknowledge that some of their joie de vivre has definitely rubbed off on me. I cherish all the time we spent together and am glad that I got the opportunity to get to know them so well.

Ashish and Akshay wherever you are you should know...that I am jealous of the fact that you'll will stay forever young!
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Back on the blog

December 9th 2008 19:27
It has been a while since I noted down my frank thoughts here…459 days to be precise! That is a long time I know…what I don’t know is, why it took me so long to get back to writing this. Well what matters is that I am back…and I hope it is for good!

A lot has happened while I was away…relating to me as well as in the world around me. It is perhaps these that have egged me on to pen it all down. The senseless terror attacks in Mumbai…the Indian cricket team beating the Australian team hollow in their tour of India…my recent holiday to north-east India…the birth of my niece…the election of Obama as the future president of the United States…the completion of my studies in Australia…and my return to Mumbai are just a few of the things I need to express my frank thoughts on.
Cherrapunjee
This is en route Cherrapunjee, a small town located in the state of Meghalaya in India

I could start off with any topic…but I think I need a little more time to ponder on where to start. I must confess that I don’t write regularly and hence getting back in to the flow might take a while. So patience is the key when reading my blog!
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Melbourne Vs Mumbai

September 7th 2007 14:42
Since I have been here (in Melbourne) long enough - two months, I thought I am experienced enough to do a city to city comparison, of Mumbai and Melbourne. Please do not take this as expert analysis, or as insights to base your travel plans to these cities on, but, as a personal comparison as I see it. Having lived in both cities, there are things I like and dislike about them and the comparisons made are on the aspects that affect my personal life. Having said that, here goes!

The first thing that any person coming from the Asian subcontinent will notice in Melbourne is the silence on the roads. Drivers here do not blow their vehicle horns unless absolutely necessary! Unlike the Asian subcontinent, where honking is almost customary, here, one “toots” only if they are really disgusted with the way the other person is driving. This is quite awesome because the roads are rather quiet and there are very few or almost no cases of road rage. On the Mumbai roads you sometimes cannot hear yourself think, but in Melbourne it is so quiet you could fall asleep on the steering wheel! The suburbs in Melbourne are far apart and very spread out, however travel by road is fast, they do have traffic jams at peak hours but they clear up fast. In Mumbai though, it is the other way, you sometimes cannot tell where one suburb starts and the finishes, they are all so close to each other, the traffic jams last for hours, sometimes days (if there is monsoon flooding).



In Melbourne, the public transport though clean and comfortable, is very irregular and not well connected. By this I mean the frequency of trains, buses and trams (except within the city), is very low and one needs to factor in a lot of waiting time when travelling and this sometimes doubles the actual travel time. Compare this to Mumbai, where though not as comfortable and clean, the trains and buses are very frequent and extremely well connected. In Melbourne the public transport waits for commuters to get on or off, but in Mumbai you better hop on quick or you will be left behind, although, if you do need help getting on, fellow commuters will gladly offer a helping hand. The commuters in Melbourne dare not come within a foot’s distance, let alone touch a fellow commuter, it is considered offensive; in Mumbai commuters are sometimes so close to each other, that sometimes you can enter a train wearing your own deodorant but leave smelling like another commuter (you are lucky if they are wearing deodorant). Not even the recent train bomb blasts were able to bring the Mumbai trains to a halt, compare that to Melbourne where even a slightest mishap delays the trains for hours. Mumbaikars (as the people in staying in Mumbai are often called) have come to depend on the public transport like a lifeline, rain or shine, they expect them to be running, delays may happen, but they always get you home.

Mumbai is famous for its street food – food one can buy off roadside carts; one can find food in any corner of the city and at any time of the day! If you are looking to grab a quick bite after working a little late in office, there is a possibility that you will not find any, in Melbourne the concept of street food almost doesn’t exist. Don’t get me wrong here, the variety and quality of food available is great, but, it is not as easily available and certainly not at any time. Apart from a few restaurants, only places like McDonalds, Subway and Hungry Jacks are open after nine in the night, and this is not the healthiest option.



Imagine a sea of humanity, people everywhere with almost no place to stand, people coming out from every nook and cranny imaginable, now double it, this is the Mumbai population. It is also the city of extremes; you will see the poor and the rich staying across the wall from each other, the poorest mostly sleep under the stars. It is cheap and expensive at the same time; a person can survive on almost any budget in this city. On the other hand, Melbourne, in comparison has a miniscule population with ample of living space and even the poorest in the city have a roof over their head. The government supports the underprivileged and they can at least have a meal a day, it is a city that is pretty well off.

Well I think I have said enough about these two cities for the moment, if I do notice some more things I will definitely post them.
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Australia isn't all that bad!

July 22nd 2007 16:20
Australia isn't all that bad! I have been here almost a month now, and am kind of getting used to the place. Before I came here, like any person moving to a new place, had my preconceived notions about how it would be here. I thought the people here would be uptight and unfriendly, I thought the food would be bland and insipid and I thought I would not be able to adjust completely.

View from the Berwick train station


The journey to the land down-under was a long and tiring one. I was in transit for almost thirty hours, with a stop-over at Kuala Lampur. I came from a wet and humid Mumbai to a cold Melbourne. It was quite a drastic change in climate!

The first thing that struck me when I got out for the first time was the scenic beauty. One can see the horizon (actual land and not buildings appearing to touch the sky) almost all throughout the city suburbs.

The people here keep to themselves, but unlike my assumption, are extremely approachable and polite. I think it took me some time to get used to the number of times I heard ‘Thank You’, ‘I’m sorry’, and ‘Excuse me’.

The first week I was here, I went to the city to do some touristy stuff and landed at the Southgate promenade eating plaza for lunch. The choice of food there was great, from local Aussie pies, to Japanese sushi, to Indian curries! It was the first time I tasted sushi!

Moving to another place, let alone another city, can be a harrowing experience. Adjusting to the change in climate, culture, locale and many other such minor and major things is not as easy at it may seem. The whole acclimatising experience has been rather smooth for me, thanks to my brother, his wife and daughter. They have been rather supportive and have been giving me helpful tips on how to get along in Aussieland.

I am missing my family and friends, but all in all it has been a good experience so far and I hope it continues to be one!
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Have I nothing to say?

June 16th 2007 14:41
As I sit staring at the computer screen wondering what to write, some random thoughts run through my head...have I nothing to say? Have I nothing to communicate? Has writing a few words become so difficult for me? Am I suffering from writers block? Have I become so addicted to online games that I cannot sit in front of the computer unless there is some animated activity going on? What the hell is wrong with me?

Let me try and answer all these questions and try and figure out what the problem is? I do have stuff to say and do have things to tell!

Here goes... I have just put in my papers at my current job and am going to be in Melbourne this July. I will be starting my Masters in Professional Communications at Deakin University! This will be the start of a new era in my life...I will be in a completely new environment...an entirely new country! I am going through such mixed emotions currently...I am excited about the newness I am going to experience, am anxious about what the future will hold, am sad that I won't be seeing my friends and family for a long time. Its not like I haven’t stayed away from family, but it is the first time I will be moving out of the country for so long! My eldest sister and brother in law are expecting their first baby…it is due end of Jan 2008!! I am sad that I won’t be around to see her with her big belly. There is so much I will miss here…but I am sure I will be experiencing equally more exciting things in Melbourne, as I will be staying with my elder brother…like I said, I am going through mixed emotions!

I guess this is it, nothing more I can think of to write about right now. Maybe I will be posting a lot more frequently once I am in Melbourne!

BTW how many of you guys are from Melbourne and don’t mind showing me around?
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Is any religion bad?

March 26th 2007 12:03
The delay in writing this post is only because of my laziness and procrastination. I have been busy with work and other stuff but could have made the time to write, but I was plain lazy.

In this period, I have watched a couple of thoughtful and heart wrenching movies. The two I am going to write about, have communalism and terrorism as their backdrop. Both these topics have always intrigued me no end. How can man be so insensitive and brutal to take another human’s life? Does religion teach us revenge or forgiveness?

Parzania, tells the true story of a Parsi family, caught in the cross-fire of the Hindu- Muslim communal riots in Gujarat in 2002.

Black Friday, is about the bomb blasts that rocked Bombay in 1993. These blasts were a direct repercussion of the communal riots that happened the previous year in the city.

These films were bold enough to discuss topics that almost always end up in political propaganda for or against it. For Indian producers and directors to choose such topics, only shows that this society is maturing. Both films did face strong opposition, but once they released they received a good response. These films have reinforced the hope of the people affected by these events who are fighting for justice.

In a country like India, various religions have lived together in harmony for centuries and have even flourished because of it. How then, in the last century or so, has this very factor become a tipping point, where even a smallest comment or action against the other can flare up in to a major outburst of violence? Mostly it is the innocent who get caught in the crossfire. Parzania narrates one such story of a Parsi family who lose their son in the mayhem, never to find him again. The Gujarat carnage seemed for obvious reasons a genocide because the ruling government did not do much to avert or even protect the targeted Muslims. This can serve as a topic for many a discussions, but not this one. My point here is that communally fuelled riots only give birth to future terrorists and Black Friday, showed just that. The persons who conspired and executed the blasts were all personally affected during the communal riots that occurred the previous year. In 2003 there were two major bomb blasts in Mumbai, which the concerned terror organisation claimed were in retaliation to the Gujarat riots.

Communalism and terrorism and very closely interconnected, however, not all terrorists are born because of it, but religion is almost always the basis. When one is adversely harmed by another in the name of religion, and loses everything he/she has, then it becomes easier for religious fanatics to brainwash them into doing insane things. They use religion as a form of both consolation and revenge.

But does any religion teach violence and revenge? I do not think so, do you?
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In a suspected terror attack, 68 people, including some Pakistani nationals, were killed in explosions in two coaches of the Delhi-Attari special train (Samjhauta Express) for Lahore at Deewana near Panipat, about 100 km from Delhi. Several people were also injured in the incident, which the Northern Railway (Indian Railways) said was a clear case of sabotage.

Inside the bogie
*Inside the boogie


The explosions in the train took place at 11.55 pm on Sunday night. The bi-weekly train left the Old Delhi railway station at 10.40 pm.

Preliminary examination of the material found in the two charred coaches of the Samjhauta Express has revealed that a deadly mix of kerosene, sulphur and potassium nitrate (low grade) was used for the explosives, official sources said on Monday. These materials were packed in clothes and a timer device in suitcases, the sources said.

A senior police officer said a Pakistani national has also given information to police regarding some explosive being planted on the train.

Pakistan President Pervez Musharraf and Prime Minister of India, Dr. Manmohan Singh while condemning the "heinous" bombing of the Samjhauta Express from New Delhi vowed not to allow such acts of terror to derail the Indo-Pak peace process.

Dr Singh, who received a call from his Pakistani counterpart Shaukat Aziz, said India was committed to doing everything possible to ensure that perpetrators of the heinous act were punished.

World leaders also condemned the terror strike and expressed hope that it would not derail the Indo-Pak peace process.

*Picture courtesy Rediff.com
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The Empire Strikes back!

February 8th 2007 14:05
The recent announcement of Tata Steel buying Corus, the erstwhile British Steel, has indeed made a lot of Indians very proud. There are several reasons for this. The deal cost the Tatas $12.1 billion and has propelled them from the fifty sixth to the fifth position in the steel industry!

This post might seem a bit biased and over the top…but what the hell!

“Do you mean to say that Tatas propose to make steel rails to British specifications? Why, I will undertake to eat every pound of steel rail they succeed in making”
- Sir Frederick Upcott (Chairman, Board of Indian Railways, in 1907 when Tatas proposed to make steel)

Upcott must have turned in his grave after the deal was announced! I’m sure if he were alive today he would be embarrassed about his statement, to say the least. The Tatas have just bought over one of the last few icons of Her Majesty’s Empire. Hence, for a country that was once a British colony for more than a hundred years, what can be better?

In recent times, many cash rich Indian companies have been on a buying spree, and have acquired smaller companies across the globe. This particular acquisition, which ended up being a three-month cliffhanger, between Brazil’s Companhia Siderurgica Nacional (CSN) and Tata Steel and is indeed a path breaker of sorts. The Tatas finally edged out CSN with a bid of 608 pence per share, this is 5 pence higher than that of CSN.

This acquisition is the biggest ever in the history of Indian business and it has now set the pace for probable future acquisitions by other Indian business houses. It is also one of the very few times a company has acquired another that is thrice its size. This move has catapulted Tata Steel into the Global Fortune 500 list, and is placed in 268th place, one spot lower that Coca Cola.

The Tata group has a tradition of being a trustworthy and pioneering entity. Their achievements only highlight the fact that in today’s world of ruthless and sometimes dishonest business, honesty and self-belief do succeed!
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Is your diamond conflict free?

January 26th 2007 13:10
Diamonds or the diamond industry is not all bad. But, whenever something of great value is found, many people lose their lives because of it, and diamond is no exception.

The recently released movie ‘Blood Diamond’, which stars Leonardo DiCaprio, and is set during Sierra Leone’s diamond fuelled civil war, has created a mini public relations crisis for the diamond industry. As per recent media reports A-list celebrities such as Beyoncé Knowles and Jennifer Lopez are part of a multimillion-dollar campaign by the industry to avert this disaster. Knowles and Lopez agreed to wear jewel-encrusted rings on their right hands at last week’s Golden Globe award ceremony in return for the promise from the diamond industry of $10,000 each donated to the African charity of their choice.

Other Hollywood stalwarts too are being approached to promote diamonds at the Academy Awards next month. And that’s not all, the industry’s campaign - titled ‘Raise Your Right Hand’ - does not stop at the movie industry, the industry also fears that the movie could tarnish the appeal of diamonds among bling wearing hip-hop fans. So De Beers, which has a 40 per cent share of the global diamond market, responded by enlisting the public support of the founder of Def Jam records, Russell Simmons. The movie has also provoked bitterness between the industry and pressure groups, who say the 'Raise Your Right Hand' initiative has distasteful echoes of Sierra Leone’s civil war, during which rebels used amputation to terrorise civilians. Amputation also meant that the people couldn't vote if they did not have a right hand!

The movie has done its part in generating enough awareness about conflict diamonds. Even in India, students from a Mumbai college organised a campaign to make people aware of conflict diamonds and urged them to question the source of the diamonds they buy. Though the diamond industry claims that the trade in conflict diamonds has been reduced from 4% to 1% by the Kimberley Process Certification Scheme (KPCS), one can never tell if a diamond bought in the retail market is conflict-free or not. However when we buy the diamond, we can do our part by asking the retailer to confirm if the diamonds have come through the KPCS.

We can help check the trade of conflict diamonds…but for this we must be aware and ask questions.
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Did they find the ‘Weapons of Mass Destruction’ in Iraq? Did they “smoke out” Osama Bin Laden from Afghanistan? Have they restored democracy in Iraq or any other country they have tried to do so? Then what in god’s name making the UN Security Council fall for the United States led imposition of sanctions on Iran’s nuclear enrichment programme, even though they were invited to visit all their nuclear facilities*? (Ironically, the Iranian nuclear programme was started with US help in the 1950s during the cold war) Why are they falling for the same story again?

Speaking in the southwestern provincial capital of Ahvaz, President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad said the Security Council’s resolution of 23 December 2006 was invalid and had left the world body’s reputation in tatters. “You are nobody,” he told the Western powers. Recalling the West’s support for Iraq, then ruled by Saddam Hussein, during its eight year war with Iran in the 1980s, he said: “If all the powers that supported Saddam in his war against Iran were to regroup and confront Iran again, Iranians would deliver a historic slap in their face.” He added that Iran had done everything it could, to prove that its nuclear programme is peaceful, but the West in the name of opposing nuclear weapons, was trying to thwart Iran’s development. “We have tried all legal, wise and logical ways to convince these corrupt and selfish powers,” he said of the West. “Let the world know that from the Iranian nation’s point of view, this resolution has no validity,” Ahmadinejad said. He said the United States was the main power behind the resolution, and warned Washington: “I want you to know that the Iranian nation has humiliated you many times, and it will humiliate you in future.”

The United Nations Security Council has become a toothless and heavily influenced organisation. They proved this last year when Israel attacked Lebanon. The council sat twiddling its thumbs even though Kofi Annan, the UN Security General pleaded with them to send in peacekeeping forces. All because the US didn’t want the war to stop, and was backing Israel. The Security Council has become terribly influenced by the more powerful members.

Today (09 Jan 2007) a US attack plane killed many people with barrages of gunfire in a remote Somali village occupied by Islamists, thought to be hiding at least ONE al Qaeda suspect. What the hell is happening in our world? In the absence of a fair and unbiased world security organisation, are we heading towards a third world war?

* The Security Council voted unanimously to bar all countries from selling materials and technology to Iran that could contribute to its nuclear and missile programmes. It also froze the assets of 10 Iranian companies and 12 individuals related to those programmes.
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